4 Signs It's Time to Step Off the Scale

It cannot talk yet it speaks to you. Some days it makes you giddy with delight. Other days it puts you into a deep depression. It judges you on a superficial level. The thought of it is enough to worry even the most optimistic person. What am I talking about? The notorious bathroom scale.

What is with this obsession we have with the scale? For most people, the scale can be an adversary or an ally, depending on the day. We often hate what it says or argue with it, but we still feel the desire to use it. When used properly and taken for what it is, it can actually be a very useful tool for weight management. But for many, the scale does more than measure the total weight of all your various parts. It somehow defines who you are as a person. And sadly, it can determine your own self-worth. We read way too much into this single-purposed tool.

Here are four signs that you might put too much weight on weighing in:

1. You constantly worry about weighing in.
When you're trying to lose weight, it's normal to experience some hesitation when it's time for your weekly weigh in. After all, you want to see the numbers go down as confirmation that all of your hard work has paid off. We all want to be rewarded for our efforts, and it can be discouraging when you have done everything right and things still don’t pan out. However, if you find yourself preoccupied with worrisome thoughts of what the scale is going to say tomorrow or the next day, then you might be a little too obsessed with the scale.

2. You weigh in more than once per day.
SparkPeople recommends weighing in once a week (or even less). Ever wonder why it's not a good idea to do it more often? Your body weight can and will fluctuate from day to day, and change throughout a single day, too. There is no sense in putting yourself on that roller coaster of ups and downs. In the war on weight, if you become so concerned that you weigh yourself daily or several times a day, you are fighting a losing battle and you will be discouraged. If you feel like you can't control yourself or stop yourself from weighing in each day, then you could be headed for trouble.

3. You can recite your weight to the nearest fraction at all times.
This is a sure sign that you are relying too heavily on the scale. Anyone who can tell you not only how much she weighs each day, but measures her weight loss to the nearest quarter of a pound is probably weighing in too often. There is nothing wrong with wanting to see a lower number on the scale, even if it's a quarter pound lower, but remember that weighing in is more about trends (an average decrease or consistency in weight over time).

4. The scale determines how you feel about yourself for the day.
When the number is down, you step off the scale singing and have a jump in your step all day. When the number goes up (or stays the same when you expected a loss), you feel like Charlie Brown walking around with a rain cloud above your head. To me, this is the saddest situation of all—to let the scale dictate how you should feel. How would you feel about yourself if you hadn't weighed in that day? What other ways would you determine your self-worth if weight didn't exist?

If one (or all) of these situations sound familiar to you, it's time to step away from the scale. Go cold turkey. Or at the very least, weigh in less often. But what's a "compulsive weigher" to do?

Instead letting the scale alone determine whether you're a success or failure, use more reliable measures to determine your progress. My philosophy is that weight loss is not a goal, but the result of healthy habits like a better diet and regular exercise. When you do step on the scale and don't see the reading you had hoped for, ask yourself these questions: Am I doing what I am supposed to be doing? Am I making healthy food choices most of the time? Am I exercising consistently? If you are, then rust that your body is making positive changes, and the results will come. If you are not, then resolve to be consistent in healthy behaviors to see the results you want.

Weighing yourself is definitely helpful and it has its place. Just make sure you don’t go overboard and give too much credence to this one measurement! After all, other measures (like how much energy you have, how much easier it is to climb a flight of stairs, or how well your clothes fit) might not be as precise or scientific, but they're sure to make you feel happier and more successful than a scale ever can.
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Member Comments

I weigh myself on most days. I find that keeps me focused, particularly if it's up a few ounces. I don't fret about it and it's certainly not the most important thing, but I regained 40 pounds when I wasn't paying attention and I am STILL trying to get that off. At least weighing every day, I am paying attention. I see their points, though. I do know quite a few people who obsess over the number. Some days, maybe I think I'm not obsessing enough. LOL Report
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Thank-you for a good article, I'm not that focused on scales like I used to be I am more concerned with measurements. Report
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I only weigh myself once every other week. Report
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I weigh in most days. I like to do it, because it helps me to realize what causes my quick gains and losses. It's SALT! If I don't watch my sodium intake, I can easily gain 3 pounds in 1 day. I know it's not fat, it's water retention.

Hormonal changes also cause weight fluctuations.

Ask any pre-menopause woman who weighs in weekly and you'll find most have a weight gain once a month, just prior to their period. It's frustrating, especially if you're in a weight loss program that judges you on what the scale says. You may eat perfectly and exercise a lot that week, and you'll still gain weight.

While I use the scale as a tool, I don't let it be my only measurement of success. I prefer to use my vitals as my guideline. I have lower blood pressure, my cholesterol and triglycerides are lower, and so is my fasting blood sugar. Regardless of what the scale says, I'm healthier than I was before - even if the weight loss isn't as much as I want it to be. Report
I get on the scale every morning. Sometimes it drives me nuts, to see it going up and down. Still do not learn a lesson, something drives me to it. I need to take control. Thanks for article. Report
As a "number person" I had in the past used the scale to determine everything - even my mood - now since May 1st of this year - I get on it maybe 1x per month if not longer - it has really changed my mindset using other NSV as progress then a number on a electronic machine - that at times when I was getting on daily, due to our normal ups and downs, become a electronic bully and depressor which lead me through the day. So much happier now - :) Report
Great article, thanks for sharing. Report
I'd like to say that the scale doesn't pay a big part of my life but it does. I try to keep in mind that weight is more than a number on the scale and that BMI with weight, is an average. The scale depresses and angers me. I workout hard and I get no where. My clothes are probably a better scale. Report


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Jason Anderson
Jason Anderson
Jason loves to see people realize the benefits of a healthy, active lifestyle. He is a certified personal trainer and enjoys running races--from 5Ks to 50K ultramarathons. See all of Jason's articles.